How to win friends and influence people
Six ways to make people like you. If you want people want people to like you.....
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
Well this can be very beneficial when trying to find friends you must find out what are their interest. You must care and bother listen to what they have to say even if not the most interesting friends are always their to listen and guide. Always be their for them no matter what have their full support for them and never let them down and have interest try going through what their going take that extra step to show that you truly care and they matter and never feel superior. So that how i think you can have interest in other people if you follow some of this thing it can surely help you find friends and keep friends.
Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
Rule two says to smile.Smiling is a simple rule but also an important one because it shows that you are friendly and welcoming. Like in the very first quote "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you" shows that you are interested and it will allow for people to like you and can influence them. It can influence them in a positive way because they see how you are always smiling and you look happy that they would want to do the same. Overall it changes how people see you if they see that you are always smiling they are more prone to like you because you seem like a friendly person.
Rule 3: Remember names
1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
Rule saying to always remember some one name because it very important to earning friend ship and making more friends because if they see that you manage to remember their name when you first met their going be like wow this person is very friend worthy he remember my name the first time i met him then people will realize that you care and are a amazing person. But in the other hand if you don't you can get in so much trouble for forgetting some one name what if its a friend you just met or family member it happens so you want to honestly avoid that so you need to practice remembering names. So watch out for those things always make shire to remember peoples name and always remember to never forget their names.
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) " If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.
This rule is stating that that you must be a good listener and conversationalist this means that you must be good to listening at what others have to say and always pay attention also always try and keep the conversation alive never let it die off and that some people are really interesting but keep it bottled up inside and never show their true colors and this will help you to make them conformable enough to show you how truly interesting some one can really be so follow this rule and lead your way to a successful conversation.
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."
What this means is that to get to some one or get close to a certain person you want to talk to hes most treasured things like for example family,job,school you want to figure out what he truly enjoys to talk about at what are hes interested and what are hes weak like if it was a test you want to study them and remember them so when you start talking about something you will enjoy and that will get through to him and that what this quote means that always try to find out what others want and like to talk about and hold dearest to their heart.Do you agree with this well theirs always a quote i use for a occasion like this which is "Always listen to the heart not mind" This will help you get friends and keep friends if you follow your heart and your mind from time to time you will be good.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
What this means is that you must show some one that you truly care about them if not they will never stay your friend for a long period of time but if you show that they truly matter to you and they are truly important to you but you must show that you care always pay attention to them always show that your going to be their for them no matter what show they matter to you and like the quote above says it is in our nature to show that people matter to always but sometimes we show it a little to late but now that we read this quote we wanna show that they truly matter for us and their the way by using another quote"Always show those around you care" This means that every one around you always show them that you truly care about them by paying attention to them.
Final Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "Six Ways to Make People Like You". Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the Six Rules.
Well my over all opinion on this 6 ways is that they were very informative in the perspective of
earning friends. This showed me multiple ways in getting friends and keeping them . Some of my favorites were like to always remember their name and That it truly matters to always remember some one name it shows great character and that you can truly be a good friend. Also that if you always speak to them about themselves like how their feeling or if they have any problems that shows that your trying to truly connect with them and get to know the person that shows that you can truly be a out standing friend. Another of the 6 ways that i liked was to be a attentive listener that saying that you take time to listen to what others have to say and truly listen to their words and take them to consideration. I will apply this by showing all this characteristics when talking to friends or meeting future friends.
