The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Habit 1: Be Proactive

"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger." 

What this in my point of view honestly its saying multiple things but on is more important than the others. It is saying that you must learn to choose your own path and not let others decide for you because if you allow that you will never get to control your own destiny. This means you meets to learn to do things and your own, make your own decisions and not allow any one else to make them for you like the quote says don,t be a passenger of your own life be the driver that is saying be the best you can be act the best and be the best and if you follow this rule you will follow a happy life. So i will apply this to my daily life by always making the correct decision and not allowing any one else to decide for me and always be the best person i can be.

 

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

"Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch)

"When you know where you intend to end up, you know where you are now." (Covey) 

Well what i believe this means is you must learn to always live by the correct way and not follow what others do. The meaning behind that is that is you follow what every one else is doing your going to be living their life and not your own. So always make sure to try and do your own thing as long as it is the correct thing never do the wrong thing even if others thing its right but in reality its not always do the correct of you know it is true. Then you want to figure were your at and then you can try and design a path which you will choose to follow. So always try to think on does word never follow other and live your life on your own. Also always determine were your at so you will know what kind of path to follow.

  

Habit 3: Put First Things First

"Organize and execute around priorities."  

This means that to always stay on track with your priorities and always make sure to accomplish them. This mean no slacking of and goofing around always try to do your best. Always give your work 100% of your effort and do not let any one distract you from your goal.So make sure accomplish what your truly after and always do the best you can it might sometimes not be perfect but what truly matters is the effort your going to put in your habits you always want to push your self to be the very best. So this means to me in the statement above i will try to apply this statement by putting it in my school life. 

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

"Think win-win or no deal."

What this mean in my own point of view if that i should always only aim to get the full prize instead of just some. What id that i always want to go in with the point of view of always winning and not losing. To always do the best i can possibly do and not be the kind of person who only goes half way. That always manages to complete the task assigned at hand and never give up before completing it . So what "Think-win-win or no deals" means is that to always have it in your mind that your always going to win if you go in with point of view of i am going to win no matter what. I will apply this to my daily life by always by giving it my best. 

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood

"Diagnose before you prescribe." 

What this means is that to make sure you know the situation before judge it or act on it. So say for example some one tells you to stop acting lazy but you get mad before they tell you i am just playing around . So you want to know the situation before you take action so like in the quote above.It states diagnose before you prescribe this mean some of the things above. So make sure pay attention to what always going around and don't jump to conclusions. I will apply this to my life by always diagnosing everything that happening before i act. So this was my point of view on this quote i believe it is a wonderful quote to live by.

 

Habit 6:  Synergism
"The whole is greater than the sum of its parts (1+1=3)" 

What this means is that the small things will never matter as much as the big things. This means that the little accomplish do matter but not as much as much the main accomplishment that will top everything over.  That will decide how things will go so don' t forget always aim for the big fish don't take me wrong the small objective do matter and their the ones which help you get closer to it  but never forget. So never let one accomplishment cloud your goal the main goal you might have. The way i will apply this to my daily life is by always making sure i complete my main goals and no to stop for the small goals in life.

 

Habit 7:  Sharpen the Saw
The Four Dimensions of Self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional

So when you hear self-renewal what comes to mind? It means to improve your self  but do you know in what ways? This quote is basically handing you the 4 ways in improving your self in more than one way. For example Physical this probably mean you want to improve your body structure to the point that your safe from getting sick because your in a god shape. Take this other one Mental this maybe just means you want to be ready in your head but not physically you want to have a tough personality that couldn't be broken. How can i apply this to my daily life? well honestly im going to have to take step by step and take my time so it actually means something. This point its to state that no point if you rush your not benefiting. SO honestly i am going to take my time on improving my self.  

 

Reflection:The rabbits of highly effective people has motivated me to do more than just sit at home and watch TV. It has made me want to make myself better like habit 7. Which is self renewal this makes me want to improve on all possible categories and make myself much better than i am right now. My other favorite habit would be number 4 which is think win-win or no deal. This one makes me want to push self to my best because all i am picturing is the eye on the price and i am going to be satisfied until i win it. I will apply this habits 1 by 1 until naturally i manage to them with out having to think to hard about them. 

Simple ways to remember peoples names 

1. Meet and repeat: Once some one tells you their name make sure to repeat it over and over.

2. Spell it out:   These if for you to use once you have received a name practice it over and over.

3.  Make connection:  Your going to want to relate their name something 

4. Make sure to care: You must be willing to care to show that you can 

remember names.

                 
                       How to win friends and influence people 
    
                                
     
                Six ways to make people like you. If you want people want people to like you.....

Rule 1:  Become genuinely interested in other people 

 Well this can be very beneficial when trying to find friends you must find out what are their interest. You must care and bother listen to what they have to say even if not the most interesting friends are always their to listen and guide. Always be their for them no matter what have their full support for them and never let them down and have interest try going through what their going take that extra step to show that you truly care and they matter and never feel superior. So that how i think you can have interest in other people if you follow some of this thing it can surely help you find friends and keep friends. 

Rule 2: Smile

  1)"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."

  2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."

  3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

          Rule two says to smile.Smiling is a simple rule but also an important one because it shows that you are friendly and welcoming. Like in the very first quote "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you" shows that you are interested and it will allow for people to like you and can influence them. It can influence them in a positive way because they see how you are always smiling and you look happy that they would want to do the same. Overall it changes how people see you if they see that you are always smiling they are more prone to like you because you seem like a friendly person. 

  

Rule 3: Remember names

1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."

2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."

Rule saying to always remember some one name because  it very important to earning friend ship and making more friends because if they see that you manage to remember their name when you first met their going be like wow this person is very friend worthy he remember my name the first time i met him then people will realize that you care and are a amazing person. But in the other hand if you don't you can get in so much trouble for forgetting some one name what if its a friend you just met or family member it happens so you want to honestly avoid that so you need to practice remembering names. So watch out for those things always make shire to remember peoples name and always remember to never forget their names. 

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

1) " If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener." 

2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

This rule is stating that that you must be a good listener and conversationalist this means that you must be good to listening at what others have to say and always pay attention also always try and keep the conversation alive never let it die off and that some people are really interesting but keep it bottled up inside and never show their true colors and this will help you to make them conformable enough to show you how truly interesting some one can really be so follow this rule and lead your way to a successful conversation. 
 

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

What this means is that to get to some one or get close to a certain person you want to talk to hes most treasured things like for example family,job,school you want to figure out what he truly enjoys to talk about at what are hes interested and what are hes weak like if it was a test you want to study them and remember them so when you start talking about something you will enjoy and that will get through to him and that what this quote means that always try to find out what others want and like to talk about and hold dearest to their heart.Do you agree with this well theirs always a quote i use for a occasion like this which is "Always listen to the heart not mind" This will help you get friends and keep friends if you follow your heart and your mind from time to time you will be good.

  

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.

"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic." 

What this means is that you must show some one that you truly care about them if not they will never stay your friend for a long period of time but if you show that they truly matter to you and they are truly important to you but you must show that you care always pay attention to them always show that your going to be their for them no matter what show they matter to you and like the quote above says it is in our nature to show that people matter to always but sometimes we show it a little to late but now that we read this quote we wanna show that they truly matter for us and their the way by using another quote"Always show those around you care" This means that every one around you always show them that you truly care about them by paying attention to them. 

Final Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "Six  Ways to Make People Like You".  Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the Six Rules. 

Well my over all opinion on this 6 ways is that they were very informative in the perspective of 

earning friends. This showed me multiple ways in getting friends and keeping them . Some of my favorites were like to always remember their name and That it truly matters to always remember some one name it shows great character and that you can truly be a good friend. Also that if you always speak to them about themselves like how their feeling or if they have any problems that shows that your trying to truly connect with them and get to know the person that shows that you can truly be a out standing friend. Another of the 6 ways that i liked was to be a attentive listener that saying that you take time to listen to what others have to say and truly listen to their words and take them to consideration. I will apply this by showing all this characteristics when talking to friends or meeting future friends.

                            Albert Einstein college of medicine of yeshiva university

Name and Location of School :    Albert Einstein college of medicine of yeshiva university

 located in (Bronx,New York)

Admissions Requirements:

• Chemistry course
• Must have a good interview when doing interview
• Must have background experience with some type of science

Tuition: 46,838

Degrees Offered

• Biomedical science
• Phd pogram

Areas of Study and Specialization

• Biomedical science 
• Doctoral degree
• Medicine study

Add a picture of this medical school

Reflection: Would you like to attend here? Why? Why not?

• Honestly i would really not because the only goal i have is to become a Lawyer!!!!

Retro Snickers

 Jordan's

Founder: Micheal Jordan

Net worth:$1 billion

The shoe’s: Jordan’s most wanted shoes are called retro Jordan. There is a collection which includes 1-29. Home to some of the world most expensive shoes.

The rarest sneakers:

• Jordan  undefeated 4
• Jordan Eminem 4
• Jordan samples

Reflection: This is one of my favorite hobbies of all times which is collecting shoes and these are some of the world most expensive shoes. I have been increasing my collection for almost 4 years. Honestly i dont own any pairs like on the picture which are samples and worth tones of money but i do own some rare shoes that are worth up to 1,800$.

Peak Performance Principles 
                             
                       " The Six Attitude of High Achievers"

                         
1) Make no small plans : What i think this mean can be multiple ideas but i will give you a close point of view on what it really means. To me this means that never make small plan always reach for the stars. Well this means that you always have to go after your goals no matter the work. But try your best and accomplish everything you want never. Hold back on anything. Be called a over achiever some one who always strives to be the best he can be no matter the challenge. Never set a limit to your plans always try to reach the highest you can like mount  Everest high. This quote means so much to me especially towards this quote. It makes me realize that if you want to achieve something in life you have to work for it.The only person who can tell you cant do something it's your self never tell your self that. "Never give up. And never, under any circumstances, face the facts."-Ruth Gordon. This quote stands for everything i talked about above.





2) Do what you fear:   What this means is that you must face everything you fear no matter the problem.Their can be multiple more ways to accomplish that but here i will talk about some. Like what this truly means when it says "Do what you fear". Like never give up on something only cause your scared of it cause theirs always going to be fear within us. Also try over come your fears cause what more powerful than that is your will and your state of mind you must have to over come it."Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."Rusell Jones. What this means is that you must be wise enough to overcome what you fear and never let it take you down if not fear will always come back on top of everything so over come it no matter what. Son honestly this what i what i think when i hear do what you fear.


 
3)  Are we willing to prepare: Well this means so much to me because at the moment  i am  trying to prepare   myself for college. Well this n mean many reasons to other but i will give you mine. Well  tis tells me to prepare for what coming ahead  and to never expect the unexpected. Also to have steps ahead of your life plan like your 100 plus goal journal. That can be very beneficial in adult hood life. You want to be ready fir tough moments in life and also never stay down when they knock you down. Always rise and become better cause your going to be prepared to take it on.No matter the challenge you will always be ready if your willing to prepare and be ready. This quote means so much to me because it comes from me "Be ready for whats ahead if not life will knock you down." Well this quote saying to be ready and prepared to stay focus and ready to take on any challenges ahead.
 

4) Are willing risk failure  Well honestly i am cause if i stay in the shadow of people. I will achieve nothing and failure happens to any one and every one its part of life.Failing is what makes you human and never be afraid to fail have the state of mind that if you fail you will rise back even stronger and faster than before why fear something that can happen even if your trying to stay safe. So no i am not scared of failing as long as i know i gave it my best. But also have a smart mind and try your best to avoid failing the point is not to let it get to you its make you say you want to improve and be the possible person you can ever be. So yeah that what i strongly believe on that failure happens  but what matters is how you deal with it that really counts.

 

5) Be teachable: What  this means can have many multiple examples. I will provide some meanings and thoughts on what this means and its up to you to decide.  Well in my point  of view this mean that you must be willing to receive criticism when you are not doing well on a certain topic you must be willing to learn and take the responsibility. Also don't be arrogant when some one is trying to teach you and friends should pay attention and not be rude. Because the best lesson you can learn is from some one who has been out in life. Successful students are teachable only because they manage to put more effort and value the time to learn. So that's what that means in my point of view. In this quote i why this statement is very important to me. " One must be willing to learn, To become some one in life who has meaning".  This means one must be willing to learn from are mistakes and be willing to teach them yo. I will apply this to my life by trying to learn from my teachers.


6) Have heart:  What this is saying can be taken in many forms but what you decide is up to you. The decision you make should always come from the heart and never over think it. But talking about this topic it brings me to my first reason. Well this means to me that you have to act with your heart in any fro that's good. Always have a good feeling in your heart and never negative and always keep it positive. Help your community and people around you and even the people who are mean to you always are the ones who need the most help. To me is what some meanings of have heart means and also means be humble and loyal and compassionate. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart." What this means is that everything you do or touch can always be seen much better with the heart than with hands or greed. So in my opinion that's what this statement means. I will apply this to my daily life by showing kindness to others and i have become a much better cause of that i also have bible club to thank for that.- Thanks Mr.Haymore 



  


My over view comment about these principles can be taken as many comments and here some i have and some thoughts. I think they are great because these six principles help you show the good side of you and how kind we can really be if we apply these six principles to our life and our daily habits. The principles that i mainly thought of as unique were, Have heart, Are teachable, This meant alo't because it brings out the good in me it makes me want to be better than what i could be be with out them and the others make me want to improve in school and be the best i can. That how i will apply this to my life.