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Showing posts with label Matter. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 7, 2017




                                              My Top 10 Rules 

1) Always enjoy the small things in life: This is very simple make sure to always enjoy every single part of life.

2) Be smart: This is basically saying that very one of us very smart so embrace it. 

3) Be positive: Simple always stay positive in any sort of situation and always ignore negativity. 


4) Have Faith: This means that when you feel you are not going to succeed always have faith in yourself. 

5) Never give up: This is when you're about to quit and give up dont just keep moving forward. 

6) Be Friendly: This very important because being friendly can help you meet new people can help lead you to success. 

7) Be CTR: These is the most important key of all because we always have to chose the right. 

8) Remember Names: This is a very important key to help keep friends instead of losing friends. 

9) Always stay true: Always tell the truth never ever tell a false lie to anyone. 

10) Be Competitive: These means you should strive to become much better than anyone else. 
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Thursday, April 27, 2017

Ten Tips       
                 
  1. Make a commitment to tell the truth.
  2. Tell someone about your commitment.
  3. Think before you give a dishonest answer, explanation, sarcasm, or reason.
  4. Be careful of when and how you use exaggeration, sarcasm, or irony.
  5. Be careful not to twist the truth or leave out part of it.
  6. Don't indulge in little white lies.
  7. Watch out for silent lies.
  8. When you catch yourself lying, throw your mouth into reverse.
  9. Talk to yourself.
  10. Treat yourself when you tell the truth. 
                                                          Reflection 
The 10 tips can benefit you in so many great ways that you can't even imagine. They can benefit by giving you great opportunities in life  or even the girl that you have been waiting for your entire life. The reason is that every one loves people who are always truthful and are not complete liars that lie to your face. This shows that for example a company tries to test your honesty and if you are truthful but it turns out you are not what will happen. I will apply all these 10 tips everywhere i go such as school, work, with friends, and everywhere else. I will add all this truthfulness to my journals by only putting a check mark on the goals i have accomplished and not lie about the ones i have not accomplished. So never forget that the 10 tips to complete truthfulness can always come in handy if you want to live a good happy life full of only success and honesty. Apply all this to your daily life without any hesitation and that what really matters.

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Tuesday, October 11, 2016

                 
                       How to win friends and influence people 
    
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                Six ways to make people like you. If you want people want people to like you.....

Rule 1:  Become genuinely interested in other people 

 Well this can be very beneficial when trying to find friends you must find out what are their interest. You must care and bother listen to what they have to say even if not the most interesting friends are always their to listen and guide. Always be their for them no matter what have their full support for them and never let them down and have interest try going through what their going take that extra step to show that you truly care and they matter and never feel superior. So that how i think you can have interest in other people if you follow some of this thing it can surely help you find friends and keep friends. 


Rule 2: Smile
  1)"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
  2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
  3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."


          Rule two says to smile.Smiling is a simple rule but also an important one because it shows that you are friendly and welcoming. Like in the very first quote "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you" shows that you are interested and it will allow for people to like you and can influence them. It can influence them in a positive way because they see how you are always smiling and you look happy that they would want to do the same. Overall it changes how people see you if they see that you are always smiling they are more prone to like you because you seem like a friendly person. 

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Rule 3: Remember names
1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
Rule saying to always remember some one name because  it very important to earning friend ship and making more friends because if they see that you manage to remember their name when you first met their going be like wow this person is very friend worthy he remember my name the first time i met him then people will realize that you care and are a amazing person. But in the other hand if you don't you can get in so much trouble for forgetting some one name what if its a friend you just met or family member it happens so you want to honestly avoid that so you need to practice remembering names. So watch out for those things always make shire to remember peoples name and always remember to never forget their names. 


Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

1) " If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener." 
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

This rule is stating that that you must be a good listener and conversationalist this means that you must be good to listening at what others have to say and always pay attention also always try and keep the conversation alive never let it die off and that some people are really interesting but keep it bottled up inside and never show their true colors and this will help you to make them conformable enough to show you how truly interesting some one can really be so follow this rule and lead your way to a successful conversation. 
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Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

What this means is that to get to some one or get close to a certain person you want to talk to hes most treasured things like for example family,job,school you want to figure out what he truly enjoys to talk about at what are hes interested and what are hes weak like if it was a test you want to study them and remember them so when you start talking about something you will enjoy and that will get through to him and that what this quote means that always try to find out what others want and like to talk about and hold dearest to their heart.Do you agree with this well theirs always a quote i use for a occasion like this which is "Always listen to the heart not mind" This will help you get friends and keep friends if you follow your heart and your mind from time to time you will be good.


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Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.



"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic." 

What this means is that you must show some one that you truly care about them if not they will never stay your friend for a long period of time but if you show that they truly matter to you and they are truly important to you but you must show that you care always pay attention to them always show that your going to be their for them no matter what show they matter to you and like the quote above says it is in our nature to show that people matter to always but sometimes we show it a little to late but now that we read this quote we wanna show that they truly matter for us and their the way by using another quote"Always show those around you care" This means that every one around you always show them that you truly care about them by paying attention to them. 
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Final Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "Six  Ways to Make People Like You".  Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the Six Rules. 


Well my over all opinion on this 6 ways is that they were very informative in the perspective of 
earning friends. This showed me multiple ways in getting friends and keeping them . Some of my favorites were like to always remember their name and That it truly matters to always remember some one name it shows great character and that you can truly be a good friend. Also that if you always speak to them about themselves like how their feeling or if they have any problems that shows that your trying to truly connect with them and get to know the person that shows that you can truly be a out standing friend. Another of the 6 ways that i liked was to be a attentive listener that saying that you take time to listen to what others have to say and truly listen to their words and take them to consideration. I will apply this by showing all this characteristics when talking to friends or meeting future friends.

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Peak Performance Principles 
                             
                       " The Six Attitude of High Achievers"

                         
1) Make no small plans : What i think this mean can be multiple ideas but i will give you a close point of view on what it really means. To me this means that never make small plan always reach for the stars. Well this means that you always have to go after your goals no matter the work. But try your best and accomplish everything you want never. Hold back on anything. Be called a over achiever some one who always strives to be the best he can be no matter the challenge. Never set a limit to your plans always try to reach the highest you can like mount  Everest high. This quote means so much to me especially towards this quote. It makes me realize that if you want to achieve something in life you have to work for it.The only person who can tell you cant do something it's your self never tell your self that. "Never give up. And never, under any circumstances, face the facts."-Ruth Gordon. This quote stands for everything i talked about above.



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2) Do what you fear:   What this means is that you must face everything you fear no matter the problem.Their can be multiple more ways to accomplish that but here i will talk about some. Like what this truly means when it says "Do what you fear". Like never give up on something only cause your scared of it cause theirs always going to be fear within us. Also try over come your fears cause what more powerful than that is your will and your state of mind you must have to over come it."Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."Rusell Jones. What this means is that you must be wise enough to overcome what you fear and never let it take you down if not fear will always come back on top of everything so over come it no matter what. Son honestly this what i what i think when i hear do what you fear.


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3)  Are we willing to prepare: Well this means so much to me because at the moment  i am  trying to prepare   myself for college. Well this n mean many reasons to other but i will give you mine. Well  tis tells me to prepare for what coming ahead  and to never expect the unexpected. Also to have steps ahead of your life plan like your 100 plus goal journal. That can be very beneficial in adult hood life. You want to be ready fir tough moments in life and also never stay down when they knock you down. Always rise and become better cause your going to be prepared to take it on.No matter the challenge you will always be ready if your willing to prepare and be ready. This quote means so much to me because it comes from me "Be ready for whats ahead if not life will knock you down." Well this quote saying to be ready and prepared to stay focus and ready to take on any challenges ahead.
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4) Are willing risk failure  Well honestly i am cause if i stay in the shadow of people. I will achieve nothing and failure happens to any one and every one its part of life.Failing is what makes you human and never be afraid to fail have the state of mind that if you fail you will rise back even stronger and faster than before why fear something that can happen even if your trying to stay safe. So no i am not scared of failing as long as i know i gave it my best. But also have a smart mind and try your best to avoid failing the point is not to let it get to you its make you say you want to improve and be the possible person you can ever be. So yeah that what i strongly believe on that failure happens  but what matters is how you deal with it that really counts.

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5) Be teachable: What  this means can have many multiple examples. I will provide some meanings and thoughts on what this means and its up to you to decide.  Well in my point  of view this mean that you must be willing to receive criticism when you are not doing well on a certain topic you must be willing to learn and take the responsibility. Also don't be arrogant when some one is trying to teach you and friends should pay attention and not be rude. Because the best lesson you can learn is from some one who has been out in life. Successful students are teachable only because they manage to put more effort and value the time to learn. So that's what that means in my point of view. In this quote i why this statement is very important to me. " One must be willing to learn, To become some one in life who has meaning".  This means one must be willing to learn from are mistakes and be willing to teach them yo. I will apply this to my life by trying to learn from my teachers.

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6) Have heart:  What this is saying can be taken in many forms but what you decide is up to you. The decision you make should always come from the heart and never over think it. But talking about this topic it brings me to my first reason. Well this means to me that you have to act with your heart in any fro that's good. Always have a good feeling in your heart and never negative and always keep it positive. Help your community and people around you and even the people who are mean to you always are the ones who need the most help. To me is what some meanings of have heart means and also means be humble and loyal and compassionate. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart." What this means is that everything you do or touch can always be seen much better with the heart than with hands or greed. So in my opinion that's what this statement means. I will apply this to my daily life by showing kindness to others and i have become a much better cause of that i also have bible club to thank for that.- Thanks Mr.Haymore 



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My over view comment about these principles can be taken as many comments and here some i have and some thoughts. I think they are great because these six principles help you show the good side of you and how kind we can really be if we apply these six principles to our life and our daily habits. The principles that i mainly thought of as unique were, Have heart, Are teachable, This meant alo't because it brings out the good in me it makes me want to be better than what i could be be with out them and the others make me want to improve in school and be the best i can. That how i will apply this to my life.
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